Thursday, February 21, 2008
Its none of my business
Today I had a long chat with a friend who stopped studying and went to Singapore to work. It was kinda nice considering how long we havent really talked.
So there we were updating each other about how things are going when we suddenly went into this deep topic about people's relationships or lack of it wtf. haha
Then he started asking me about his ex-girlfriend, who he still cares deeply about. and how is she doing in her current relationship.
I told him she was fine when she wasnt.
Cause I know she currently in an abusive relationship which she is afraid of ending.
Cause her current boyfriend has ties with gangsters.
But you know what, I didnt spill the milk.
considering that it is after all, none of my business.
But it didnt stop me from feeling guilty.
And that feeling intensified when he told me that sometimes, he thinks about marrying her.
When I asked him why.
He told me shes the kind of girl which he wants to spend his life with.
Sweet right?
You can almost hear the air supply music playing in the background now.
I know he's a good guy.
and will treat her well and make her happy.
But I didnt tell.
Cause its none of my business.
And she did tell me that she has intentions to get back with my friend.
I didnt tell him either.
Cause its none of my business.
But..... it doesnt make me feel less guiltier anyway.
But I did wish him luck.
and told him I hope for only the best for them.
I really do.
Eventhough it really is none of my business.
I feel guilty about keeping my silence.
Yet again, you cant be guilty if you keep your silence.... right?
Today I had a long chat with a friend who stopped studying and went to Singapore to work. It was kinda nice considering how long we havent really talked.
So there we were updating each other about how things are going when we suddenly went into this deep topic about people's relationships or lack of it wtf. haha
Then he started asking me about his ex-girlfriend, who he still cares deeply about. and how is she doing in her current relationship.
I told him she was fine when she wasnt.
Cause I know she currently in an abusive relationship which she is afraid of ending.
Cause her current boyfriend has ties with gangsters.
But you know what, I didnt spill the milk.
considering that it is after all, none of my business.
But it didnt stop me from feeling guilty.
And that feeling intensified when he told me that sometimes, he thinks about marrying her.
When I asked him why.
He told me shes the kind of girl which he wants to spend his life with.
Sweet right?
You can almost hear the air supply music playing in the background now.
I know he's a good guy.
and will treat her well and make her happy.
But I didnt tell.
Cause its none of my business.
And she did tell me that she has intentions to get back with my friend.
I didnt tell him either.
Cause its none of my business.
But..... it doesnt make me feel less guiltier anyway.
But I did wish him luck.
and told him I hope for only the best for them.
I really do.
Eventhough it really is none of my business.
I feel guilty about keeping my silence.
Yet again, you cant be guilty if you keep your silence.... right?
posted by hiddenmcky at 1:38 AM
4 Comments:
since your friend is still in a relationship with that dirtbag.. i think you did the right thing. when the time is right or better, both of them will work things out. as for now, yeah.. let's wish all parties the best.
i hope you feel better. it's not about your business or their business, it's about doing or saying what's right for now..
- angelin
Just hope your working-in-Singapore friend doesn't get attacked by the gangsters. You should have at least told him to carry around a weapon with him. That would have made you feel even less guilty. Haha! (wait, am i suppose to be laughing?)
Why did she leave him anyway? I mean, she should find him nice right since he IS nice, right? Unless, she's the type to like the badass guys and not his kind. Or doesn't want to think about marriage like he does.
BYE!
p.s. *air supply music suddenly plays* SCARY!
angelin> thats what I was thinking as well. If they really are destined to be with each other, what I do or say, or what I dont do or say, will not affect it all.
shaun> You know what, I never thought of it that way.. she digging badass guys. lol... it just might be possible when I come to think if it. hmmm..
to both of you: thanks for the advice :)
Hah? but i disagree! i think u should told him. I noe tat some things r best untold but i really think u should tell him. Stop him from keep dreaming about her. It's over since d girl has moved on.
Well, if tey r destined to b 2gether, i think tats even worse! Coz tey may b running in circles tat tey didn't even noe.
I think i'll b guilty if i didn't say anything.
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