English educated? Please be nice. PLEASE

Sometimes the foulest acts are disguised under what is assumingly a pretty picture.

Like how people are using religion to spread insecurity and terror. Kononnye when you tell people you fight in the name of religion, you think you become so holy that god will probably close a blind eye on the harm you inflicted on others? And seemingly people are using PEACE as an excuse to start a WAR.

Learning to distinguish the good from the bad might come across as tricky sometimes. Sometimes the good may appear bad and the bad might appear good. Our eyes and closed perception might make a fool of us from time to time, but that's when you have to learn to trust our instints.

I wanted to blog about this before. But given that the majority of the people who read this is probably english speaking and I seriously do not want to prod on the banana culture in Malaysia. But today, something happened yesterday that make me pissed off. Actually, it wasnt just yesterday. It was the build up of my frustration towards many individuals I have met over the years to actually come up with such a conclusion.

Some people think that being english educated means that they are so bloody high class that they can prod on other people's already fragile egos and get away with it!!!

Why?? Cause watch too much OC la. Those american high school movies do really do things to your mind. The mentality that being hurtful is cool. So personally I think that being straighfoward is cool.But pleasela, have some control on your tongue. Seriously, how cool can you get when you tell someone that they are FAT? As in "oh well, you dont care right? As long you are happy with yourself, fat also nevermind."

OI. BUGGER. WHERE GOT PEOPLE HAPPY WHEN PEOPLE CALL YOU FAT?!! GOT NOTHING GOOD TO SAY, JUST SHUT YOUR TRAP!

When most of us told the accused off that it is seriously not NICE to tell other people that they are fat, you know what that thick skulled baboon said? "Aiya, you all misunderstand me" with a lanci face.

Kawan, do you think we are so dense that we'll fall for the reverse phycology trap? boohoo! you all dont understand me. Cause I am different You are wrong. You know it. Dont be so kiasu. Just say sorry and carry on with life.

Damn behtahan. So now its all the chinese speaking background people punya fault? Cause they all kolot. Dont want to change with the times. So traditionalist for what. ISH. Pandang rendah la.

I am not being bias here. Besides, its not like I am saying that ALL english speaking people are like this. But there are some black sheep.I have seen alot of cases before. Like once, a group of students from a convent school apparently told my friend off "We dont understand mandarin. Speak english please." when she confronted the other group about a matter in mandarin. The poor girl turned bright red and stuttered. Cause she cant speak good enough english to retort.

So she left amid sniggers.
Despite knowing full well those girls can speak mandarin cause she heard them conversing in the language.
So my friend has a bias perception now. I cant blame her seriously.

Well, fuck them.

Being a banana doesnt make you any less chinese.Being proficient in the language doesnt make you less chinese either. Okay, so its really ironic when aunties keep saying "paiseh, bu hao yi shi" but still accept a gift as quickly as possible, when your mother insists that ice-cream boxes are also tupperwares and you were told by your grandmother that Chang-er lives on the moon when you are young.But hey, thats what we are. Accept it. Be proud.

I might not be making much sense to you now.
But look around, open your eyes and see.
I make perfect sense sometimes.